The topics covered by the now-retired author are also all-inclusive, including anal sex , foreplay , masturbation , oral sex and sex toys , which seems at odds with the common perception of devoted Christians as completely vanilla. I once heard [about an activity where] each person draws a square on a sheet of paper. Inside that square, they write any and all sexual activities that they enjoy and are okay with doing. Outside of that square, they write the sexual activities that they feel uncomfortable with. And on the corners of the paper, they write down the sexual activities that are completely off the table. Exercises like this, she says, can lead to a larger conversation that eventually allows both parties to experiment and grow in their sexuality together.
Vanilla sex... dealbreaker?
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A Sex Educator Tells You How To Move Beyond Vanilla Sex
I'm writing to you to settle a dispute between my husband and me. We're not terribly adventurous, but we're not totally vanilla. However, there is one issue that is driving me insane: My husband constantly pesters me to have anal sex. We have tried it in the past, and it is NOT my bag. But my husband will not stop pestering.
Image by Sarah MacReading, photos via iStock. Monteiro and her partners are far from alone. I had heard the term various times throughout my life, sometimes used as an insult, but never took the time to actually consider what it meant, and what the implications behind it were. When I mentioned what had happened to friends, it became apparent that choking often without asking first, which is an entirely different conversation!