Lots of straight men are turned off by the idea of anal play to be fair, many bi and gay men are too , and as a result are missing out on a whole world of fun. This is the third in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play. You can see the other posts in the series as they come out here. Seriously though, your anus and rectum are full of nerve endings, just like your penis. Your rectum is also home to your prostate gland , another pleasure center. Anal play feels great on its own, and can lead to unbelievably intense orgasms. Lots of bi and gay men enjoy oral sex.
How do I give my guy anal pleasure?
The Straight Guy's Guide to Anal Play
To begin, put a generous amount of water-based lube on one or two fingertips make sure you replenish the lube often and gently massage the area around the outer rim. Once he's riled up, test the waters by gently sliding just the tip of your middle finger inside. If he clenches his sphincter muscles, which encircle the anal opening, pull your finger out and continue rubbing the outer area to help reduce his tension. Then, try to insert your fingertip again. If he likes how this feels and is up for trying more anal action, gradually move your finger in deeper, taking care not to scratch the delicate tissue inside.
The reality is that for many gay men, anal sex can be a real source of anxiety. In fact to some degree, there still exists anti-gay sentiment in many parts of the United States. With the legalization of same sex marriage however, it does appear societal views are changing.